'Money is supposed to flow down, not up': Worker is asked to pitch in $50 for higher-up's holiday present despite them making 3-4x their salary

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    O.J.L.B
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    Being asked to pitch in to get a gift for someone who makes 3x my salary
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    Yeah, title says it all. I'm beginning to hate the holidays at work. I work in accounting for a state university. Myself and the other staff are always being asked to pitch in money (at least $50) to get a gift for some of the "higher ups" who make 3-4x more
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    than our salary. Meanwhile the staff who does 90% of the everyday work is given nothing for the holidays besides...you guessed it, a pizza party!! Lmao. I make decent money and am pretty happy with my job but this is always so ridiculous to me. I have
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    always been guilt tripped into this the past few years I've worked here but this year I politely declined. Asking staff to contribute any amount of money to someone who makes triple. what they make is insane, in my opinion. Does anyone else's workplace do this?
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    Chokonma 23h ago • • Expecting/asking lower rung employees to get gifts for higher ups is asinine and indicates a poor work culture since it completely ignores the uncomfortable and imbalanced power dynamic and pay at play. Higher ups should always be the ones doing the "treating".
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    . visley1187 21h ago • Thankfully my boss (who makes almost double me) takes me and my coworker out for lunch usually once a week. I felt bad at first but when I found out what she makes I don't anymore lol
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    county259 • 23h ago This practice is illegal in federal government jobs and most decent corporations have policies against this practice
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    • Beerstopher85 23h ago. Yea, when I saw "state university" I was going to say there are probably rules, and likely laws regarding gifts. If there is an exception I can guarantee that there is certainly a limit that $50 per person is going to go over (assuming there are more than 2-3 people)
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    GIFelf420 23h ago Just say no •
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    carnations2000 OP 23h ago • here for the memes I did this year! I have been guilted into contributing in the past but I'm done with. that.
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    United_Bug_9805 • 23h ago Gifts go down not up. Just say 'no'
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    fenriq 23h ago • • Look at them like they just asked you to chop your foot off and say Yeah, no, I don't buy gifts for bosses, that's pathetic as h I.
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    HoodooEnby 23h ago. . Never ever. Not ever. My team pitched in to get me a small housewarming gift and I had to both give heartfelt thanks as well as explain why they should never buy gifts for anyone up the chain. Ever. It was awkward.
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    ora... • . 23h ago Edited 23h ago nope. money is supposed to flow down, not up. It's not how this kind of workplace etiquette is supposed to work.
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    If anyone even suggests doing this (I'm sure they totally mean well but they're not thinking about it critically) I tell them this and opt out immediately. the last time was at a small family owned type of company that was trying to expand, all the employees who had been with the founder for like
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    10+ years and his WIFE (not an employee of the company at all) asked us new employees to chip in for a bday gift (some 3k+ surfboard) for the founder. They looked at me like I was the worst person in the world for saying no. But this guy has a mansion in BH and a Soho House membership, goes to Europe for months at a time and a Bentley, I'm still renting and drive a 10+ year old car. he can buy his own surfboard
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    Zealousideal-Emu5... • 23h ago. My company offered us the opportunity to purchase a $150 fleece jacket with the company logo. I dream of pizza parties.
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    Karl-Farbman 23h ago . New holiday company bonuses for hard working employees; chip in for bosses gift. Gtfoh
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    jueidu 23h ago. Since they're being inappropriate, make it awkward. "Sorry, I'm broke and don't make enough money for this. [Person] makes a ton of money and doesn't need money from me hahaha"
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    • Strange_Novel_1576 23h ago • Yes nearly every company I've worked for does this and I hate it also. And the messed up part about it is that when you decline to participate... you are an outcast and not a "team player" BS! Such
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    under_the_c 23h ago . Gifts should flow down, not up! Psychopathic behavior and culture.

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